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Reality Check: Founder Situation & Constraints
Date: October 19, 2025 Discussion Context: Initial strategic session with @men (business mentor) Status: Living document - update as situation changes
Current Situation
Oleg. The solo founder and creator of Banatie. The only developer of the project. Own all tech, business and marketing processes.
Personal & Family Context
Family composition: 5 people total
- 2 adults (Oleg + Ekaterina)
- 2 children (Daniel, born 2019; Kirill, born Oct 7, 2024 - around over 1y.o. by November of 2025)
- 1 grandmother (living with family) - actively helping with Kirill
Location: Koh Samui, Thailand
- 5-year DTV multi-visa for digital nomads
- Can live and work remotely legally
- Rent a house in a resort
Remote Work: Working remotely on a europe based company.
- Entity registered in USA.
- Payments via deel.com
- Russian speaking team
- Global customers
- Oleg personally works on a product, that is modern AI website builder
- Oleg rent a separate room in co-working to work in convenient isolated environment
Home Office:
- Oleg has an additional working place in his home
- Oleg has two laptops: one is normally located in co-working and dedicated for work and another one is usually at home for side projects. Oleg own both of them
Critical upcoming expense: International school for Daniel
- Current budget: NO allocation for this
- Timing: Upcoming (2026)
- Impact: Major financial pressure point
Financial Reality
Current Income & Expenses
Current employment:
- Position: software engineer / senior/lead level
- Employer: IT company (platform for generating designed websites from templates + AI components)
- Monthly income: $6,000 USD
- Status: ONLY income source for entire family
Monthly expenses:
- Current spending: $6,000 USD (tight budget, no buffer)
- Breakdown: 5 people, Thailand cost of living, no private school yet
Financial Goals
Immediate need (Side Project Mode):
- +$3,000/month additional income
- Purpose: Buffer + private school tuition
- Timeline: As soon as possible
- Keeps day job: YES
Medium-term goal (Hybrid Mode):
- $9,000/month total from Banatie
- Scenario: Negotiate 4-day work week OR maintain full employment
- Timeline: 12-18 months
- Keeps day job: Potentially reduced hours
Long-term goal (Full Independence):
- $9-10,000/month minimum from Banatie (replaces current salary)
- Dream: Scale beyond $10K ("взлететь до небеÑ")
- Timeline: 18-24 months (aspirational)
- Keeps day job: NO
Time Constraints & Capabilities
Available Time for Banatie
Current allocation:
- Weekday evenings: 2-3 hours (after the main work time)
- Weekends: 4-8 hours (Saturday + Sunday)
- Total: ~15-20 hours/week
Constraint: Full-time employment + family
- High risk of burnout
- Family time
- Age 45 y.o.
Technical Capabilities (Force Multiplier)
Core skills:
- 8+ years web engineer (React, Next.js, NodeJS)
- Deep expertise: Headless CMS (Sanity, Storyblok, Hygraph, Contentful, Crystallize, Payload)
- Additional: Shopify, modern web stack, API integration
- Strong: JavaScript, TypeScript, HTML, CSS, Web APIs, Tailwind CSS
- Postgres, Mongo
- Technical mindset
- AI SDK, Mastra
Secret weapons:
- Agent Coding: Proficient with Claude Code (uses at day job too)
- Enables faster development without getting stuck
- This is why solo development is viable despite time constraints
- Strong motivation
- Workaholism, the habit of investing oneself in work
Weak Points:
- technical mindset instead of entrepreneurial mindset. Need mentor with strong entrepreneurial skills and vision
- lack of experience in launching own products
- Perfectionism, the desire to bring a product to perfection. Does not know when to stop technical development
- Tendency toward over-engineering. Need a strict partner who will make sure that Oleg doesn't get too caught up in the technical implementation and forget about the business goal of the project.
- 45 y.o., not so much energy as when Oleg was 30 y.o.
Existing Infrastructure:
- Hosting: Family VPS (Contabo, Singapore location)
- Current services: NextCloud + multiple services for domain/Docker management
- Plan: Migrate to dedicated VPS when needed
Strategic Timeline Recommendations
Phase 1: Side Project Mode (Months 0-6)
Objective: Validate ICP + reach $1-2K MRR
Time allocation: 15-20 hours/week Day job status: Keep 100% Key activities:
- ICP research & validation (10-15 customer interviews)
- Launch stripped-down MVP to first customers
- Manual onboarding, high-touch support
- Build in public (dev.to, Twitter/X, Indie Hackers)
Financial target: $1-2K MRR Success criteria:
- 5-10 paying customers
- <5% monthly churn
- Consistent usage (not just sign-up)
- Positive word-of-mouth
Decision point at 6 months:
- If MRR < $500: Serious pivot conversation OR shut down
- If MRR = $500-1.5K: Continue, refine approach
- If MRR > $1.5K: Green light for Phase 2
Phase 2: Hybrid Mode (Months 6-12)
Objective: Scale to $3-5K MRR + get employer flexibility
Time allocation: Need to negotiate for more time Day job status: Options to explore:
- Negotiate 4-day work week (80% salary = $4.8K)
- Remote days specifically for Banatie work
- Freelance/contract basis (if employer open)
Key activities:
- Scale customer acquisition
- Improve product based on feedback
- Hire virtual assistant for support (if needed)
- More aggressive marketing (SEO, content, partnerships)
Financial target: $3-5K MRR Combined income scenario:
- Banatie: $3-5K MRR
- Day job (reduced): $4-5K/month
- Total: $7-10K/month (meets family needs + buffer)
Success criteria:
- 15-30 paying customers
- <3% monthly churn
- Predictable growth (not stagnant)
- Product-market fit signals clear
Decision point at 12 months:
- If MRR < $2K: Reassess viability, consider shut down
- If MRR = $2-5K: Continue hybrid, optimize
- If MRR > $5K: Evaluate full-time leap
Phase 3: Full-Time Leap (Months 12-24)
Objective: Replace day job income, go full-time on Banatie
Time allocation: 40+ hours/week on Banatie Day job status: QUIT (scary, but necessary for scale)
Conditions for leap:
- Banatie MRR ≥ $6K (current salary replacement)
- OR: 12-month runway saved + high confidence in growth trajectory
- OR: Banatie MRR = $4-5K + spouse (Ekaterina) takes on admin work with income
Financial target: $9-10K MRR minimum (comfortable living + growth buffer)
Success criteria:
- 40-60 paying customers
- <3% monthly churn
- Strong PMF (can't-live-without feedback)
- Clear growth levers identified
Long-term vision (24-36 months):
- $15-30K MRR: Sustainable solo/small team business
- Hire 1-2 people (support, marketing, or tech)
- Consider wife (Ekaterina) full-time on admin/ops
Risk Assessment & Mitigation
Risk 1: Burnout (HIGH)
Factors:
- Full-time job + side project + newborn + family of 5
- ~60-70 hour work weeks total
- Sleep deprivation
Mitigation:
- Set strict time boundaries (no work after 10 PM)
- One day/week fully off (family only)
- Use Agent Coding to maximize efficiency
- Cut scope ruthlessly (MVP, not full vision)
Red flags to watch:
- Physical health decline
- Family tension
- Day job performance suffering
Abort criteria: If health/family at risk, pause Banatie (not worth it)
Risk 2: Financial Pressure (HIGH)
Factors:
- Zero savings buffer
- School tuition coming
- Single income (Oleg only)
- Family of 5 dependent
Mitigation:
- Keep day job until Banatie ≥ $6K MRR (non-negotiable)
- Negotiate hybrid work arrangement early (6-month mark)
- Bootstrap (no fundraising until PMF clear)
- Minimize Banatie expenses (use family VPS, free tools)
Red flags:
- Credit card debt accumulating
- School tuition unpaid
- Family stress over money
Abort criteria: If Banatie costs exceed $500/month without revenue
Risk 3: Employer Discovery (MEDIUM)
Factors:
- Building side project while employed
- Same industry (web development, AI)
- Public presence needed for marketing (Twitter, LinkedIn, dev.to)
Mitigation strategies: (see separate document: future-topics-backlog.md - "Ñвечение фейÑа")
- Use separate brand identity (Banatie, not personal)
- Delay LinkedIn posting until closer to launch
- Focus on dev.to, Indie Hackers (less employer monitoring)
- Check employment contract for IP clauses
Red flags:
- Employer asks about side projects
- Colleagues mention seeing Banatie content
- Contract has non-compete clauses
Abort criteria: If employer explicitly forbids, negotiate exit OR pause publicly
Risk 4: No Product-Market Fit (HIGHEST)
Factors:
- New category (convergence, not proven)
- Unclear ICP (multiple hypotheses)
- Complex product (6-stage pipeline)
Mitigation:
- Brutal ICP validation BEFORE building more
- Launch ultra-MVP (not full platform)
- 10-15 customer interviews BEFORE launch
- Set clear pivot triggers (see Phase 1 decision point)
Red flags:
- No one willing to pay
- High churn (>10%)
- "Cool idea, but..." feedback (no urgency)
Abort criteria: After 6 months, if <$500 MRR and no PMF signals → shut down
Key Decisions Already Made
✅ Bootstrapping: No external funding (for now) ✅ Solo founder: No co-founder search (leverage Agent Coding instead) ✅ Tech stack: Express, Next.js, Gemini, MinIO, PostgreSQL, Cloudflare ✅ Location: Stay in Thailand (location arbitrage advantage) ✅ API-first approach: Developer-focused, not consumer ✅ Side project mode: Keep day job until $6K+ MRR from Banatie
Key Decisions Pending
â³ ICP selection: Which target audience to validate first? (see execution/03-icp-research-questions.md)
â³ MVP scope: What to cut from initial launch?
â³ Pricing strategy: Free tier or paid-only? Trial length?
â³ Launch timing: When to go public? (pre-launch landing page now?)
â³ Marketing channels: Which 1-2 channels to focus on?
â³ Employer conversation: When/how to negotiate flexibility?
Support System
Family:
- Ekaterina (wife): Potential future involvement in admin/ops
- Grandmother: Childcare support (frees up Oleg's time)
Technical:
- Claude Code: Development force multiplier
- Agent coding tools: Maintain velocity despite time constraints
Mentorship:
- @men AI agent (business mentor): Strategic guidance, accountability, market knowledge
Community:
- Dev.to, Indie Hackers, Twitter/X: Build in public, feedback, support
Document owner: @men + Oleg (joint)
Last updated: 2025-11-01
Next review: After ICP validation (2-3 weeks)
Related docs: strategy/01-market-positioning-and-segments.md, execution/03-icp-research-questions.md